​From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Alexondra Lee (born February 6, 1975) is an American actress. She was married to actor Stephen Dunham until his death in 2012. She was born in Pennsylvania to parents Mae and Harry Lee. Lee studied ballet since the age of four and has danced in The Nutcracker Suite with the New York City Ballet Company. She began dancing with the New York City Ballet at the age of seven. She starred in the short-lived Special Unit 2 as Detective Kate Benson and had a regu ...